PinnedThe secret life of people with high self-control (it’s easier than you think)Research suggests that people with high self-control are good at avoiding temptation — not resisting itJan 9, 2024A response icon725Jan 9, 2024A response icon725
PinnedMake self-control effortless by choosing goals that light you upScience says it’s easier to reach goals that feel fun, important, or meaningful. Here’s why.Mar 11, 2024A response icon77Mar 11, 2024A response icon77
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Writing takes butt musclesIf you think you’re a bad writer, you might just have bad editing stamina.Jun 12Jun 12
How I stopped dreaming about travel and actually did it (or how the universe made me do it)Over two years ago, I wrote a story about my longing to go abroad. “I feel like there should be Part 2,” a reader commented. I agree. Here…Jun 2A response icon1Jun 2A response icon1
The 11 best restaurants I visited in 2024 — a completely biased listI traveled to 12 countries and 18 cities in 2024. Here are the best restaurants I visited around the world.Dec 31, 2024A response icon2Dec 31, 2024A response icon2
Resist temptation by telling yourself that you can indulge “some time later”Yes, I’m telling you to procrastinate on your desires.Oct 15, 2024A response icon6Oct 15, 2024A response icon6
The perks of being an accidental writerI often feel embarrassed about stumbling upon writing as an adult and focusing on personal topics. But being a serendipitous hobby writer…Sep 30, 2024A response icon4Sep 30, 2024A response icon4